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Proof of Love Ep. 7 Tantric Sex with Ben Tantra Punk

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What can one say about a crypto tantric episode other than wow.  This is our spiciest Proof of Love yet! Ben Tantra Punk joined Stephanie and I to discuss this ancient practice.  In between a few laughs and blushes, we get a great overview of tantric lovemaking, how it’s different from regular lovemaking, the history of why there is tantric sex in the first place, and the joys of the female orgasm.  We went a bit over on time, but I don’t think you will mind with this subject matter! We need more love in our lives, and this episode will show you how to put some of these teachings into practice, even if calling each other goddess in bed is a little uncomfortable.  

About the Guests:

Ben Tantra Punk is a sex worker, feminist porn performer, certified permaculture designer, certified tantric counselor, author, film maker, and recording artist. He’s found healing and empowerment through sacred loving arts, ecological gardening, shamanism, ecstatic trance dancing, martial arts, and open source technology. His ongoing independent short film series, Sexorcism the Tantric Opera, was launched in early 2017. It tells his story of recovery from childhood sexual trauma, adolescent sex trafficking, and the path of a wounded healer. His first book, Psychedelic Goddess Worship: Erotic Memoirs from the Astral Battlefield, is planned for release in late 2019.

He loves to help tantric seekers discover the infinite source of divine love from above, the eternal power and wisdom from the Earth below, and the bliss of conscious, healthy, diverse romantic relationships in between. He provides private coaching and counseling sessions online and in-person, and teaches publicly via livestream on the Ethereum powered SpankChain camsite at: https://beta.spankchain.com/TantraPunk His writings, music, podcasts, videos and contact info can be found at https://www.TantraPunk.com.

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Proof of Love Ep. 5 Women in Politics

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I was blown away by Carey Wedler’s talk at the 5th annual Anarchapculo in Mexico.  It’s a popular topic that people love to speculate on: “Why aren’t there more women in the Libertarian movement?”  The neat thing about Carey’s talk was that she talks a lot about the social programming that I have noticed since I was a kid, especially with the advent of Brittany Spears and other more modern pop stars.  This has overflow into politics, and she posits why there may be such a left lean among women. That doesn’t mean we all have to be stuck in the left/right paradigm though! We talk about Carey’s speech, the way to handle creepers, how to say no and not feel guilty about it, along with conference etiquette in an upbeat convo that hopefully will provide a little insight into the female psyche.  

About the Guests:

Carey Wedler is an activist, journalist, and editor in the freedom community. She began her journey toward anarchism on Youtube, and her videos eventually connected her with theantimedia.org. Carey’s videos and reporting focus on challenging the violence, hypocrisy, and cognitive dissonance of statism and American politics while advocating for peace, liberty, and voluntary solutions to government-created problems, as well as spiritual and emotional healing to sustain free societies. She is also a certified yoga instructor.

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Proof of Love Ep. 4 Julia Brave the World

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Julia Brave the World has been a staple in the crypto community for years.  She is known not to shy from controversial positions, and this show is no different.  In this episode of Proof Of Love, we explore femininity, motherhood, pornography, dating apps, and polyamory with our ladies.  As you can imagine, hilarity ensued, and some good insight was shared for people wondering what do women think about all this dating app stuff?  What’s it like to get hit on, and what makes people act the way they do online vs in real life? What drives inappropriate behavior, and what’s missing from modern courtship?

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More Info:

How promiscuity hurts men-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ic28c1fkLfs

Is Polyamory a Good Option?- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pq0zEVjHIsQ&t=527s

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Proof of Love Ep. 3 Long Distance Dating and Dating on the Road


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Is this even possible?  Can you sustain a meaningful relationship when there are oceans between you and the object of your affection?  What makes it work, and what can ruin it?  What about dating while touring the world, whether that’s as a speaker, a musician, or just a digital nomad?  How do you get the guts to tell someone that you want to try for something more real, even though it’s hard to get to that place if you are only meeting people in transit?  It’s not so easy!  It IS possible, or at least some of the ladies seem to think so.  How about you?  Tell us your long distance experiences, did it work?  Utter failure?  Any tips or tricks?  Leave a comment below.

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Proof of Love Ep. 2 Attachment Theory

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My favorite thing I have learned on my journey into my romantic psyche has been Attachment Theory.  Whenever I share it with people, it also seems to help them and really resonate.  It’s nice to know we are not alone in our weird behaviors some of us have had since childhood, but never really had an explanation for.  Hint: you’re not a crazy person (well, you may be, but not because of this specifically).  Stephanie had some great articles we touched on, I have some book recommendations, and Lauren shares what it’s like to go from one style into another based on your partner.

Interested in learning your own attachment style?  Listen in, and see if you are a secure, anxious, avoidant, or an anxious-avoidant!

Here are some links we reference in the show:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_in_adults

https://www.amazon.com/Youve-Waiting-Internal-Family-Systems/dp/0615249329

https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1547410107&sr=1-1&keywords=attached

Do you have a love question, or a show idea for us?  Please email us at tatiana@proofoflovecast.com!

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The Premier Episode: Proof Of Love

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Finally, the time has come.  Our very first episodes are launching!  Proof of Love has been a labour of love, no doubt.  However, I am so excited to be able to share these first few episodes with you!   This is the opener, where Lauren, Stephanie, and I go through a bit of our dating history and the reasons why we wanted to start the show.  Expect a lot of different topics moving forward, and some celebrity guests, and some authorities on love, sex, personal growth, and more.

Do you have a burning question, or a show idea for us?  Please email us at tatiana@proofoflovecast.com! 

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